There is no doubt that Roberts’s best relationship is the one she has with Moder, and she speaks about it very proudly and openly. He is the love of her life, and he is, without a doubt, her best friend and the only person that she’s been able to stick with for such a long time.
She was interviewed about it not only by Oprah but also by actress and friend Gwyneth Paltrow on her podcast, “Goop.” The podcast interview was open and candid, and she wasn’t afraid to gush over her husband and let the world hear all about it.
No Such Thing as Mastering Motherhood
Much like other mothers in showbusiness, Roberts was asked about her mothering skills and about what she believed was the proper way to educate and teach. She even spoke about it when getting interviewed by Oprah.
According to her, she has her ups and her downs, just like with everything else in life, and with motherhood. Some days she feels like she's got it, and other days — not so much. As she puts it, there is no such thing as mastering motherhood, and people need to know that before they decide to embark on a parenting journey, otherwise, they may be in for some big surprises.
There's Nothing Wrong With Reaching Out
Parenting, as we all know, is easier when done by two parents, as opposed to a single mom or single dad doing the job alone. Roberts made it a point that she believes women shouldn't be responsible for every single thing all the time if they have a loving and supporting partner.
During her interview with Oprah, she said there is nothing wrong with reaching out to a partner, friend, or even your own children if you need a hand for whatever reason. We think everyone can take a page out of Julia’s book, considering how hectic things can get at times.
A Seismic Shift
When featured in Paltrow's podcast, Roberts described the impact her husband had on her life as a "seismic shift." She couldn't visualize her life without him, and he was, many times, her better half that she couldn’t do without, especially when times get tough and life gets too hectic. He has always remained her rock.
According to her, meeting him was the first time she felt like her life has changed forever in the best way possible. With more than 20 years of being in a relationship together and three gorgeous children later, they still keep getting closer and better together.
What's Their Secret?
So, after failed relationships, including a divorce and a broken-up engagement in the past, what makes Moder so special and their relationship work so well? As the separation rate is so high, especially in Hollywood, what makes this work? There is probably a lot more to it than the interview, but Roberts told Paltrow all about it.
She calls him her "favorite human" and says she is more interested in his opinion or point of view than anybody else's. They have a great friendship, and they just enjoy being together, no matter where they are. It is purely as simple as that.